Thursday, April 21, 2011

Visiting Hudson's orphanage and foster home

Hello! from Logan, Hudson, and Bart in Guangzhou, China.

Yesterday (Wednesday) we picked up the Chinese adoption decree which officially recognizes Hudson Andrew Taylor as our son. Very cool!

Afterward, we went out with 4 other families to a nice Chinese restaurant on Shamian island. Our guide “Connie” ordered a sample of favorite dishes for us to share as sat around 6 foot diameter tables with a 4 foot turntable in the middle. Our first dish was roasted pigeon. Hudson and the other boys (age 12 and 10) from his foster home got really excited when they saw it. Logan was pretty excited, too. The rest of us were much more reserved. For those that are curious, it has very dark meat and it tasted like chicken. The platter also had several pigeon heads. I thought that perhaps this was for visual effect, but the boys, including Hudson, showed us all that the heads can be eaten as well. (Look closely at Hudson’s right hand). The rest of the dishes were pork, chicken, beef, and rice. Everybody was stuffed, and our share was about $20 for the three of us.

Today (Thursday) Hudson, Logan, and I along with two other families that are adopting children from the Longgang orphanage rode about 2 ½ hours to Shenzhen city to visit the orphanage that Hudson was brought to after he was found in a hospital in 2004. We also were allowed to visit the “foster home” that Hudson lived in for the past two years. I was allowed to look at (but not keep) his official orphanage file, including the details of when he was first found and his first picture. We’ve never seen this file in any for our previous adoptions, so that was pretty cool.

We had a good tour of the orphanage, a very large, clean, 4 story facility that was built around 5 years ago. The staff was very nice. One very nice social worker (Shera) spoke English pretty well and explained that she had set up online accounts for each of the three older boys and uploaded a lot pictures of picture of them. She gave us her email address and asked us to keep in touch.

We then headed about a half mile away to the “foster home” where 12 older kids from the orphanage live and go to school. It’s a sparse 3 story building with an eating/living area downstairs, 3 small bedrooms (four per room) on the second floor, and sleeping areas for the staff on the top floor. Hudson showed me where he slept on the top bunk.

The kids are cared for by an “uncle” and two “aunts.” They all work in the home during the day and take turns staying in the home at night. I counted 12 kids, so apparently 3 lucky kids had already moved in to take the place of Hudson and his two friends that were adopted this week. They seemed very nice and everybody, including the caretakers and all of the kids, seemed to be very excited to see the 3 boys coming back for a visit with their new families. We had a surprise celebratory cake. One of the other kids (Long Xiao Xiong) in our adoption group somehow had saved money for the cake and asked one of the aunts to buy for our visit; amazingly generous.

I wondered what Hudson was thinking as he went back to the orphanage and foster home and said goodbye to the only life he could remember. But, he seemed to be in a really good mood all day. There really hasn’t been any sign of homesickness yet. But I have no doubt that it going to come at some point.

But for now we’re all having a fun time getting to know each other and looking forward to Hudson meeting his new Mommy and sisters tomorrow night when they fly here to Guangzhou from Nanjing and we move into the second week of the trip.

6 comments:

Unknown said...

So glad all is going well. I am so excited to think that in a few short hours your girls will be there and you will all be together (well with the exception of the oldest working young man). May God continue to have his hand upon you all while he unites your ever growing family. See you on the 30th!

ourchinagirls said...

So excited to see Hudson with his forever family!! Our daughter was in the foster home with him. She was Long Ji Xing. She was very excited to see the photos from the orphanage visit. She remembers the man and woman from the foster home!!

Safe journey!
Christie

Me said...

So very exciting! I love reading both yours and Claire's 'take' on each adoption day. Hers included shopping, and yours included the great deals on food:-) And both told such great stories of enormous love, courage, and strength. These kids are so blessed, and they have to know that already! And I know that both of you are already feeling such overwhelming attachment to them, as if you had known them forever.
What a blessing to see where they had lived, and get a good feel for what will someday be the background images for many stories they will. tell.
Thank you for taking us along on your adoption journey.

We love you all!

The Harringtons said...

Such a beautiful tapestry God is building within your family! Excited to see everyone together in your next post(s).

See you SOON!
Love,
PP & TT, KK, CC & KP

KO said...

Congratulations! How exciting for the family to be together tomorrow.

Thanks for sharing your journey.

Tim said...

Ma Hengxin, adopted Nov 2010 would like to be in contact with Hudson.